What I Learned in a Room Full of Santa’s
In July, Richard and I attended the quarterly meeting of the IBRBS—International Brotherhood of Real Bearded Santas, Oklahoma Chapter.
Now, I’ll admit it—I’ve typically avoided these meetings. They always seemed so… over the top. A room full of Santas who love the sound of their HO HO HOs? It felt like a lot for someone like me who prefers quiet support over center stage.
And I made some judgments. Unfair ones.
I assumed it was all fluff and theatrics, a bit of holiday pageantry that didn’t really need my presence. But I was wrong—so wrong. Because what I found was something truly special.
Behind all that jolly energy is something more. This is a group of men (and women!) deeply committed to the art of bringing Christmas to life. They aren’t just dressing the part. They’re learning best practices, supporting one another, giving generously to charities that matter, and continually refining how they show up in their communities—not just in December, but all year long.
Richard and I personally support Kids Joining Eternity, a nonprofit close to our hearts after the loss of our first grandchild.
Serving others with joy and compassion is part of why this work means so much to us.
This meeting shifted something for me.
I’ve always supported Richard’s Santa work, but seeing this group in action gave me a new level of appreciation. There’s a professionalism and heart at the core of what they do that often goes unnoticed. They care deeply—about the kids they meet, the families they serve, the legacy they’re building, and the spirit of Christmas they carry with them, even in 100-degree Oklahoma heat.
And it wasn’t just the Santa’s
The Mrs. Clauses, too, are learning their craft—stepping into character with care, creativity, and purpose. Many are performers; others are storytellers, bakers, singers, or simply present with kindness and grace. Their roles may vary, but the heart behind it is the same: a desire to bring joy, connection, and a little sparkle wherever they go.
It reminded me that sometimes the most meaningful work happens in the places we least expect: a summer meeting, a shared laugh, a circle of Christmas believers lifting each other up and giving back.
And it reminded me why we do any of this at all.
The Christmas season calls us to love bigger, give more freely, and slow down enough to notice the joy around us. We deck the halls, light the candles, and fill our homes with warmth—but beneath it all is a longing: to carry that spirit beyond the season. Not in decoration, but in attitude.
For me, the heart of Christmas has always pointed back to love—a love that came into the world in the quietest, most miraculous way. Not everyone shares our faith, but I think we all feel the invitation: to be a little kinder, a little more generous, a little more present.
This blog is one small way I hope to do just that—sharing the spirit of Christmas, one month at a time.
If you missed it, you can read last month’s post here.
And if you’re curious about our journey, this is who we are.
With love and growing appreciation,
❤️ Mrs. Claus
I love the monthly reminders that the “Spirit” is really with us all year round!
Wonderful article, loved it.
Í love your blog, Lori You are truly a gifted writer. Can’t wait for next month for your insightful and inspiring words!
Thank you so much Elaine. It has been fun, I had forgotten how much I do love to write.